To Be A Virgin Or To Not Be A Virgin, That Is The Question.

Being a virgin... being a slut, which is worse? Or which is better? Used to be that being a virgin was better, but now it seems the time have changed, and girls need to be both a virgin a and a slut. That seems crazy.. because how can we be both, without crossing the line? We could put on make up, and wear cute clothes that show off our bodies, but then if we attract multiple guys, we cannot be seen with all of them, especially making out with them. Some girls like to have all the options of having these guys around her, and then there are other girls who get all dressed up, gets a guy, and then doesn't want him. What should she do then? Women seem to get blamed for sending mixed messages in these instances of what types of clothing we wear. No girl wants to be considered a slut, so we try and be careful not to be with too many guys. And there are different types of sluts, like ones who have sex with all the guys, or make-out sluts. One of the guys in class seemed to think that a make-out slut is worse. When asking one of my friends, he thought the slut who has sex with all the guys was worse, but then when I told him that the make-out girl was a big tease, he thought about it again. And then decided the make-out girl was worse. We also talked about virginity.. and what are women really losing when she says she's lost her virginity. So what are we losing? Someone brought up in class that the we as women lose our commodity, because we have been "used". Is it really bad that because we lost our virginity we aren't as good because we had sex already? And another interesting fact is the guy takes our virginity away, women never take men's away. Another thing I realized is that it seems losing your virginity has changed over time. Years ago it was a big deal to lose one's virginity, and to some people, it is still a big deal, but I feel like many people don't care as much about it. And I think that is because different views and changes in generations. It seems like couples used to wait until marriage or until they are older to have sex, but now having sex is becoming more and more common, especially for the younger population.